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Achieve Purposeful Balance and Overcome a Cluttered Calendar {A Series on Balance}

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This week I had the privilege to speak at the Snoqualmie Valley Moms gathering on how to: “Achieve Purposeful Balance and Overcome a Cluttered Calendar.”

It couldn’t fit better with our current series on balance so I want to share my notes with you in today’s blog.

As women, we often major in giving, accommodation, patience, sacrifice, waiting, and selflessness. These are beautiful and endearing qualities we should each strive for. But when we lose ourselves in a lifetime of being all things to all people, we are no use to anyone. Our once vivid imaginations of a life of adventure, romance, meaning and purpose can turn into one long to-do list that can never be achieved. If you have heard yourself ask: “Is this really all there is?” Or “Who am I” this blog is for you.

Balance is a simple choice of priorities.

We can’t get where we are going unless we first admit where we are.

In the book, “A Weekend to Change your Life” Joan Anderson says: Life is, after all, simply a response.

How are you responding to life?

  1. Living by your to-do lists and ping of your smart phone calendar
  2. Dreams, goals and calling

The phrase that best describe many of us: “Doing the same thing and expecting different results.” This is the definition of insanity.

Today, we are going to take the steps to get un-stuck. The following calendar exercise will take 15-30 minutes. You can do it alone, with a friend or in a small group. I believe, sharing your experience will add the most value. In a group setting, we share stories, and can reflect on solutions. We realize we are not alone. General directions for the exercise are below.

Angela’s additional thoughts about the Cluttered Calendar Exercise:

  • If you can’t remember the last year, pull out your calendar or smartphone and write out the last 10 days.
  • It is normal to have events that are both exhausting and invigorating at the same time. Use what I call the “drain meter” to tell if you need to recalibrate these events next time they land on your calendar. Zero being most exhausting and ten being most invigorating.
  • Check and recheck your motivation for every event on your calendar. Does it stem from a need to achieve, people please, or an unhealthy habit of comparison? Or is it something you truly love and want to make a priority?
  • Uncluttering your calendar does not always mean getting rid of all things exhausting. The things we are most passionate about may take grit and perseverance to achieve. For example: Running a marathon is exhausting but also invigorating and worth while.
  • The goal is for you to rule your calendar instead of it ruling you. Awareness that you are making a conscience choice is the key to a healthy and balanced calendar.

Click the link below to download your free printable Cluttered Calendar Exercise:

Cluttered Calendar Exercise

 

I would love to hear your thoughts on, Achieving Purposeful Balance and Overcoming a Cluttered Calendar. Click HERE for last week’s blog on getting a good night rest, The Gremlins in My Head. Please don’t hesitate to share your stories or comments below. If I can encourage you through coaching or prayer, please connect with me.

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Until next time, have an incredible week!

Angela

4 Responses
  • Valerie
    May 24, 2016

    “The goal is for you to rule your calendar instead of it ruling you.” This is such a great point. I’m learning about balance lately. It amazes me how easily we can let our life get unbalanced.

    • Angela L Craig
      May 25, 2016

      thank you Valerie for talking the time to read and comment. Have an amazing day!

  • Linda Stoll
    May 26, 2016

    Oh yes and amen to boundaries that work to protect us from those overcrowded, life-draining calendars, Angela!

    So very fine to meet you this week!

    I love this post …

    • Angela L Craig
      June 14, 2016

      Thank you for stopping by to read and comment Linda! It is wonderful to meet you too! Have a great June week!

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